What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 02:22
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
What are your best funny dating stories?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
How can I decorate my house creatively?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
Can a relationship really last forever?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
Nothing too Serious
Why do I get stressed when I go to bed?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
Which document should be pointed out to a holocaust denier?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
Are you afraid of being alone?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
Why were the Japanese soldiers in WW II so hesitant to surrender in battle?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
The Ice Breaker Questions
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71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
Why am I more attracted to black men?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
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1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
Are there any more 'nun' jokes?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
What do men find attractive in an older woman?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
39~ What are your love languages?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
Any that are a turn off?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
*** Random Questions ***
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
How old are you? Male or Female?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
What is your favorite position? Why?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
Family Relation Age Play
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
29- How superstitious are you?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
If yes, what?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
Any that are a turn off?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
If you win, what will you make them do?
52~ What are your hobbies?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
Would you read them together?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
Please share Did you stop?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
*** Questions About Me ***